So what happened today?
The Supreme Court has legalized gay marriage today in a 5-4 decision that applies to all 50 states. Meaning that gay people can now marry one another anywhere in the country.
So what does this mean for me?
Honestly? Probably nothing. I’m assuming if you’re a Christian concerned about this ruling that you’re not gay, so it doesn’t really affect you at all.
So this doesn’t invalidate my marriage?
Nope. You’re still married.
But isn’t my marriage less special now?
Is it? Do you still love your spouse?
Then no. You’re marriage is the same as it was yesterday.
But what about religious liberty?
What about it?
Isn’t the gay agenda going to force all Christians to accept their lifestyle and outlaw the bible and preaching that homosexuality is a sin from the pulpit as ‘hate’ speech?
Okay, first, I would guess that most gay people aren’t evil monsters out to destroy you personally. Second, you mention religious liberty, so you’ve obviously heard of the First Amendment, which would prohibit any attempt by the government (Federal, State, or Local) to suppress you or your pastor’s ability to call being gay a sin all day long.
Now, that won’t stop gay people from saying that your insistence on saying that makes you a bigot, because that is also personal speech protected by the 1st Amendment.
I’m not sure I like that.
Well, then you probably shouldn’t go around telling random gay strangers that they are depraved sinners.
What about my church or my church’s school? Will they be forced to hire gay people and offer benefits to gay spouses?
Are they forced to hire gay people now?
There’s you’re answer. The courts have typically given religious institutions a great deal of latitude when it comes to who they hire. Typically, the employees must agree with a statement of faith and conduct. If you’re church or church school doesn’t want to hire gay people, they don’t really have to.
Where the law gets a bit murky is if a religious institution is running a for-profit business that serves the general public or runs a service that accepts state or Federal funds. In those cases, you may be held to existing anti-discrimination statutes by the courts.
Well… what if I own a business like a bakery and a gay couple want to buy a wedding cake?
Personally, my answer would be to bake them the cake, go to the wedding if they invite you, hug them, dance with them, wish them the best, befriend the couple, and when you’ve earned the right to do so, then you can bring up your faith.
I’m not sure Jesus would approve of that.
Jesus was constantly accused of hanging out with sinners, prostitutes, and traitorous tax collectors that defrauded the people. He was also accused of loving wine a bit too much. Even if Jesus thinks that gay folks are sinners, I’m sure he’d understand.
What if I still don’t feel comfortable baking that cake?
One answer is that you should do it because it’s your job. And part of that job is serving all customers under the law regardless of race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, or creeds.
Another answer is which would you rather you and your faith be known as, the person who said “No because your love and marriage are sinful and God will judge you” or the person who bakes the best damn cake ever, greets them with a smile, and hugs them?
Yet another answer would be to ask why you don’t feel comfortable doing that? Is it just because the customers are gay? Would you a heterosexual divorcee’s second wedding? Would it occur to you to ask them about their past marital status?
But I don’t like the government telling me I have to cater their wedding!
I don’t like speed laws or paying taxes. It’s the price we pay to live in a civilized society. So render to Caesar and all that.
Okay, but what about Sodom and Gomorrah and fire and brimstone and all that?
Somehow if God didn’t destroy America for slavery, ethnic cleansing, Jim Crow and the “strange fruit” of Southern trees, Imperialistic violence and massacres in the Philippines, rampant gun violence, and hell, let’s throw in the Iraq War, I think we’ll be okay now that Adam and Steve can say, “I do.”
So, there’s really nothing in this ruling that affects me?
Nope. Not at all.
Then why is everyone so angry?
Beats me. Probably fear of change. Politicians using fear to con people into giving them money or to distract them from realizing how badly we’re all getting screwed by the constant collaboration between corporations and governments, but that’s just my guess.
So, uh… how about those Dodgers?
I’m an Angels fan.
I’m so sorry.
Yeah, me too.